DEAR ABBY : I’m 70 now, and many of my friends and family spend our time together complaining about their various ailments. I, too, have had some problems but do not make them a part of our visits unless I’m asked about them. How can I rethink how to make these times more positive for everyone involved? — POSITIVE IN OREGON
DEAR POSITIVE : Sometimes, people of a certain age talk about their health problems because they have become less active and can find little else to talk about.
To keep the energy flowing in a more positive direction, help your friends find hobbies and other interests to discuss. Even if they have medical issues, most…
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